There are a few guys who want to get caught staring affectionately into the eyes of his date hookup across a café table or cuddling mushily while watching manly athletic events in a sports bar. However, there are a few public displays of affection that men do get into, making the right touch boost their intimacy with his date hookup even out in public.
- The Arm Lock
You know that casual way women hook their arms around ours as we walk together? It may seem subtle, but it’s one of those old school gestures couples have grown accustomed with that makes us men feel strong, protective and desirable even if we’re more slender than studly. “I find comfort in the thought that my girlfriend feels safe when she’s with me,” says Andy, 28. “And when she grabs my arm, I feel that she is happy to be seen with me and wants other women to know I’m hers,” he adds.
- The Stealth Stroke
Knowing the difference between sexy and inappropriate is key to executing under-the-table fondling. “I was having dinner with my girl and her friends and was kind of drifting out when she grazed my thigh with her fingertips,” says Adam, 24. “That got my full attention literally and figuratively.” Girls, allow your hand to stray onto our thigh. And if it gets pulled up north of there, then so be it. If you got the whole “we’re not supposed to be doing this” vibe going on, this definitely gives us a massive turn on, and the contact intensifies the anticipation for what can happen later.
- The Whisper
When out in public and even a quick squeeze is in poor taste, there are other methods to show how tight you are. For instance, just lean in close, making sure his ear graze your lips, and whisper something anything. Whether you tell him what color your panties are if you’re wearing one at all or just ask us help fix a faulty switch, the viewing public sees two people having a sweet exchange on a private and intimate level. Going for the ear, which is a neglected erogenous zone, is a bonus. Your warm breath can set off body tingles all over.
- The Butt Grab
If you get to take us by surprise by a quick gluteal squeeze, you can change our first name to “Putty” and our surname to “In Your Hands.” This move is a direct sign that you are, well, horny. What’s not to like about that? Plus, it feels great to know that you can look, and then also touch. Just keep in mind to not do this while we’re holding a beer, a plate of food or anything that might spill because we get startled easily.
